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My Thoughts

I often think and speak that there has to be something else… I am 42 years old and the more women I talk to we all have the same needs. The overwhelming need seems to be each other. After researching Cape May County Resources, nothing I have found has fit the bill. I have received information on life make over’s, book clubs and fitness boot camps, all of which I am interested but seems a bit overwhelming separately as far as time and finances. I get a resounding “we need to get together”, “where has the time gone” from school mates and friends. I did go to a meeting of the Life Maker Over and was astonished by the number of women that attended. This confirmed my theory that I am not alone. I did not proceed with the meeting because I did not know the women. I believe they would have listened and a part of what I was looking for would have been met, but the truth is we want to be secure in who we expose ourselves to.

I believe the resources we have as a whole is priceless. We have our jobs and our families, but there is a need for more. I often think about it and the need is to be among those who feel the same, but let’s make it worthwhile to others as well as ourselves. One of my friends spoke to a friend we had not seen in a while and she said how she had great intentions to get together with her immediate friends but they had not made the time, my friend responded that “we make the time” and thank goodness we have. This also inspired me because had we not; I would have been left with my thoughts and feelings with nowhere to go. My friends listen to me and me to them and I think this is critical at this stage of life.

Most recently one of us has experienced a tragedy of great proportions, which reminds us of the support that we share by being together and that we can lose track of this. So this leads me to my draft proposal.
Working Proposal Initiate a monthly group of women who meet October to June at the home of one of the members. Invitation is by invite only by a group member. There is no age limit Members are limited to women The gathering will be a combination of guest speakers on topics determined by group, sharing time, healthy snack, a community project and networking. Guest speaker/Topics – could be life make over, finances, real estate, elder care, grandparent raising grandchildren, county line dance lessons, pet services, employment training, mental health and recovery resources ,stress busters, wine tasting, book review and many more areas of interest suggested by the group Outings can be planned based on interest and finances. Outings could be with spouses/significant others. A bank account would be set up with two signers. A mission statement designed to capture the purpose. Participants would be limited only based on limitation of space Attendance would be taken- but there would not be an attendance requirement Agenda would be followed Minutes would be taken and forwarded to members via email.